Guide

How to set goals

To set a goal you will keep, choose one thing, say exactly what done looks like, break it into small steps, put the first step in your calendar and check in once a week. Starting with one goal beats starting with five.

Updated 21 October 2026. Sources named on the page.

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Step one: choose one

Pick the one goal that matters most right now. Several at once split your attention and make each one slower. You can start another when this one is a habit.

Step two: say what done looks like

Write a sentence a stranger could check. "Run a 5 km parkrun without stopping by the end of March" is clear. "Get fit" is not. Add why it matters to you, because that is what you will read on a hard day.

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Step three: break it into small steps

List the three or four steps between where you are and the goal. Make the first one small enough to do this week. Big goals fail at the first step more often than at the last.

Step four: schedule the first step

Put it in your calendar with a day and a time. A step with no time is a wish. If you share a home, tell someone, because it is harder to skip something you have said out loud.

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Step five: check in weekly

Once a week, look at what you did, what got in the way and what you will do next. Adjust the plan, not the goal, unless the goal itself has stopped mattering.

When you fall behind

Falling behind is normal. Start again from the next small step. A tracker that allows rest days helps, because a missed day then is a pause and not a failure.

Questions

How do I set a goal?

Choose one, define what done looks like, break it into small steps, schedule the first and check in weekly.

How many goals should I have at once?

One main goal is easiest. Add another once the first has become a habit.

What if I lose motivation?

Return to why it matters, make the next step smaller and keep the check-in. Motivation follows action more often than it leads it.

Is there a free goal setting template?

Yes. The goal setting worksheet here is free in A4 and US Letter.

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